This came in the email recently. Sorry its a long post but is complete. I have edited it to maintain confidentiality. Thanks for taking the time to email & sharing your experience & views.
Initial email :
"Thank so much for the HIV & DLA review forum. A “close relative” has had his forms hidden away for three weeks to scared to open them. A friend tidying up for him found them recently & acted quickly within the time frame allowed, we now wait anxiously for the outcome. My “close relative” understandably has an ostrich approach to life. Doesn't see it wont happen.
AT least I know what to expect when its my turn on hearing the post hits MY floor everyday............
The whole thing has become a nightmare as I am having to do all the research myself for both my “close relative” & myself. The forum has been extremely informative & so glad I found it, BUT I am still extremely anxious, having sleepless nights worrying about the outcome. Being ** y/o & diagnosed 17 years ago, 'made redundant' two weeks later?? Very suspicious but hey it was a big American take over & I suspect related.
I'm apprehensive about the future. My “close relative” has been positive for 12 years. The whole situation has had an almighty effect on all our family.
If ever there was a call for an experiment on how HIV can differently affect siblings, we will be ideal guinea pigs. My brother has had every opportunistic infection going, for ever having adverse reactions to medications, KS, PCP, to name a few. I on the other hand suffer no more serious than the occasional pneumonia or viral meningitis. Living with HIV has been more a problem for me than the physicality of the disease. I'm now diazepam dependant because of it. Oh & how my GP hates giving me repeat prescriptions for it, deal with your issues is a common response. How & with who? I've not been told despite asking.
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